From Bummer to Blessing: Andrew is Here!

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Andrew, our ninth child, was due Aug 14. This morning Dana woke up with heavy bleeding and we headed to the hospital! The doctors concluded that Dana had placenta praevia, which is when the placenta is in the wrong place (covering the cervix). This can be dangerous for mom and baby so they recommended (not a strong enough word) an immediate c-section. Dana did NOT want to have a c-section and we were not really ready to have a baby today. That was the bummer part.

The blessing part became more obvious as the doctors saw how serious the condition could have been if not detected when it was. The greatest blessing, of course, is that Andrew is here!

His name is Andrew Vernon. Vernon is the middle name of my dad, my grandpa, and Dana's dad, and the first name of Dana's great grandpa. He was born at 11:54am, July 29, weighing 7 lb. 12 oz. and 18 1/2" long.

He has had trouble breathing so far and has been in the nursery with oxygen and an IV. Pneumonia, other infections, and immature long development have now been ruled out. He just has fluid in his lungs as a result of the c-section. This should resolve itself. In the meantime, though, this could result in jaundice and difficulties in nursing. Please pray these things are not a problem so we don't have to stay in the hospital all week!

Ready to Pray!

A native Indian pastor spoke in our church yesterday. He told stories of amazing answers to prayer and healing. I am challenged by this because I know that God wants to work powerfully in his church to show is love and glory and draw people to himself. He wants to do this here just as much as he does in India. I want to see him work powerfully through me and our church to see many drawn to him. Why isn’t this happening on the same scale in our lives? What is required for God to do this?

Faith, passion, and courage. Faith in who God is, his will and power. Passion for the lost and for God’s kingdom to grow. Courage to obey and love in the face of opposition and mistreatment.

So, what does this mean for me today? What is it that I must do that I am not doing to demonstrate faith, passion, and courage? My first clear thought is this: PRAY. Pray alone, pray with my family, pray with my church, pray with others, pray with the lost. Pray all the time; pray anytime. “You have not because you ask not” (James 4:2).

As I observe my own life, and the life of our church, I see that we are ready move forward in accomplishing our mission of making disciples. I think of how to obey and how to equip people for doing so. And I already know that prayer is foundational to any such ministry. Please, Lord, teach me to pray!

Wild Foods!

Bethany, our eldest daughter who just turned 14, is a "wild foods enthusiast." What did she do on her Birthday? Go foraging with friends Margaret Wilkes and Mimi Baker (in the rain).

She was recently asked to write up some of her thoughts and experiences with wild foods. If you don't know what "wild foods" are, she explains it in the essay.

"When my family and I went over to Holly Drake’s house (my wild foods mentor), she taught me all about the Burdock plant. When I asked if the leaves were edible, she said, “Yes, but they are nasty.” My brother and I decided to see what she meant by nasty . . . it was the nastiest thing I had ever tasted! That was the first day I got hooked on wild foods. 

"When I say wild foods I basically mean plants that are edible. Most people would consider these plants weeds. You can find wild foods in fields, woods, gardens, pots, and any space where a weed can grow.

"There are two different uses of plants, medicinal and culinary. Medicinal means plants that are mostly for medicine and culinary means plants that are mostly for eating. But when we are talking about wild foods, I definitely agree with Hippocrates when he said “Let food be thy medicine and Medicine be thy food.” These foods are so good for you that it is hard to get sick if you are eating them on a regular basis.

"There are two basic ways you can harvest these plants. You can go out on a big hike, not knowing what you are going to harvest, and take extra supplies along (backpack, knife, scissors, etc.), or you can go to a place where you know that you can find a certain weed in your back yard to throw into your salad. Both are important and fun.

"When my family moved to a new house, I had not been up in the woods behind our house much. When a friend of my brothers asked if he could come over to look for deer tracks with them, I decided to go along. All the way I was exclaiming about all the plants that I was finding. I would say, “Oh, look at all the Beebalm, it is so medicinal and makes such a yummy tea;” and, “Look at the Hawthorn tree; that is so good for heart problems.” Finally my brothers and their friend told me that I was crazy!

"So why do I do it? Well, there are lots of reasons. The top three are probably health, exercise, and independence. The grocery stores are selling fruits and vegetables, but they are usually shipped from far away, genetically modified, and sprayed with bug poison. All of these things are not good for our bodies! But with wild foods, we know where our food is coming from, we know that they are fresh, we know that they are not genetically modified, and, if we are careful of where we harvest, we know that they are not sprayed with harmful things.

"Some of the medicines we are taking today are just covering the symptoms of our problems and sicknesses, not dealing with the actual causes. Many of these wild foods deal with the actual problem. Here are some examples of what these plants can do: Plantain is good for beestings and splinters. Dandelion is good for your liver and Pine needle are a good source of vitamin C.

"Another reason I enjoy wild foods is the exercise. Exercise is important and when you are digging up all different kinds of roots, you are definitely getting some good exercise! The last main reason is independence. Wild foods are even more sustainable than gardening. So, if there was to be some kind of disaster, I know that my family would not starve.

"When I first moved to Boone, NC, I was about six. I only had one friend. One day I decided to make a confession, so I just blurted it out, “Meredith, I like, I like . . . mud and worms!” She turned to me and said “ME TOO!” We were good friends from then on.

"It is true. I love to touch things, taste things, and smell things. This is a perfect hobby for me because I can touch the fluffy milkweed seeds, I can taste the fragrant peppermint leaves, and smell the sweet milkweed blossoms. Before I became interested in this I would always be touching things in my house, and my Dad would say “Bethany! Would you just STOP touching things!” But now I can use this desire in a healthy way.

"The last reason I love it is that I just love being outside. I love the sunshine and fresh air. It is a great way to get my energy out. Wild foods are important to me and I hope that I have shared why. And I also hope that other people will be inspired to pursue wild foods."

Ministry Commission and Appointment

It continues to be a great privilege to be a part of and serve our church body, Highland Christian Fellowship. We continue on our original journey of seeking God in his Word about how he intends his church to live and fulfill our mission to make disciples. 

​A question we have recently been considering is what the church has traditionally called "ordination," and what we are calling Ministry Commission and Ministry Appointment. Here is an excerpt from a document we are working on that gives the biblical explanation of this important function in God's family.

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"The Bible teaches that all believers are ministers (Eph 4:12). There are times that believers are called to particular types of ministries, whether to a short term mission trip, a particular service that one engages in for his or her entire life, or a position in the local church. The Bible also teaches that the local church is an important part of affirming, equipping, and sending people into ministry.

"Based on biblical examples, there are basically two purposes for what is traditionally called “ordination.”

  • Ministry Appointment – this is an appointment to a particular position of ministry in the church. The two positions described in the NT are for elders and deacons (See Acts 6:1-6; 14:23; 1 Tim 5:22; Titus 1:5).
  • Ministry Commission – this is the commission of a person to a particular type of ministry. The local church is affirming a person’s gifting and calling to ministry and committing to support them in this ministry (See Acts 13:1-3; 1 Tim 1:6; 4:14).

"These actions taken by the local church fulfill the basic legal and cultural understanding of ordination. However, there are reasons why we may choose not to use this term in our church.

  • This term is not used in the NT.
  • This term is used in the OT with reference to succession of leadership and priesthood, which are not good parallels for leadership appointment and ministry commissioning in the church.
  • The cultural understanding of this term also carries ideas related to power and/or clergy/laity distinction that we are not conveying.

"Therefore, we can use the descriptions above, 'ministry appointment' and 'ministry commission.' In both cases, the biblical examples indicate that the local church corporately expresses these through prayer and the laying on of hands."

Workshops @NCHE

I just finished my first workshop at the NCHE Conference. It was a lot of fun; great crowd! Below is the prezi I am using for both workshops. The one I just presented, "Equipping Children for Life with Three Critical Skills" come in the second part of the prezi (the second cloud). The first part, "A Basic Educational Strategy," will be presented tomorrow at 4:50pm.

Tom Sawyer

I just finished reading The Adventures of Tom Sawyer​ again. Lots of fun! Great adventure and drama, characterization, and historical period interest. Hilariously and well written. Mark Twain did an amazing job of presenting these adventures exclusively from the perspective of a young boy, while at the same time making some decidedly insightful observations about human nature (adults in particular).

Is this a good book to include in the reading list for your children? Yes! However, there are certainly some murderous and gruesome aspects. It may not meet your standards for younger children. My strategy is to carefully allow my children to experience real life and help them understand it from a biblical worldview. 

​Another important thing to be aware of is that Tom and Huck are not operating from a biblical worldview. And their view of those that seem to be is less than flattering. There is a certain morality in the story as the boys become heroes for choosing to tell the hard truth, at their own peril, for the benefit of others! However, the book also ends with their certain intent to become "robbers".  The boys are at the time of life when playtime and reality are blurred. This might be difficult for young readers to process.

It is worth reading. It is worth letting your children read, if you are prepared to help them process it. But that should be normal life, anyway.

Scripture Memory Review System

Over the years, I have developed a Scripture Memory Review system. I have recently written out the rational and instructions again for my children to use. The importance of Scripture memory has also come up recently in several teaching contexts. I am pasting here the rational. You can download the entire document, which includes instructions and review charts, HERE.

“I have hidden Your Word in my heart that I might not sin against You.”

Psalm 119:11

            The challenge of memorizing Scripture is not just memorizing it the first time, but remembering it after that. I have spent much time memorizing large portions of Scripture that I did not review and therefore could not remember months later. To remedy this, I use a Scripture Memory Review System.

Memorizing Scripture is challenging. It is often challenging because, as a culture, we are not in the habit of memorizing. However, the more you do it (and the earlier you teach your children to learn it), the more accustomed our minds will become to it. Don’t quit because it is hard at first; keep training your memory muscle and it will become stronger.

Memorizing Scripture and using a review system also takes time. Is it worth it?

  • How important is it to understand who God is and his will for our lives (Eph 5:15-17)?
  • How important is it to be transformed by the renewing of our minds (Rom 12:1-2; Psalm 19:7-14)?
  • How can we live out our freedom in Christ from sin (Psalm 11:9-11; Matt 4:1-11; John 8:31-32)?
  • How can we have victory in the spiritual battle and escape from deception (Eph 6:10-17; Col 3:16; Titus 1:9)?
  • How can we be equipped for every good work (1 Tim 3:16-17)?

Here is David’s conclusion about the words of the Lord,

“More to be desired are they than gold, even much fine gold; Sweeter also than honey and drippings of the honeycomb. Moreover, by them is your servant warned; In keeping them there is great reward!” Psalm 19:10-11