What to Do:

Get alone and uninterrupted.
Determine to get right with God.
Draw near to him in faith and humility (Heb 10:19-22; James 4:7-9).
Ask God to show you how to get right with him.
Write down every sin he brings to your mind.
Ask him again and wait.
Write down every sin he brings to your mind.
Do it again.
Go through your list and confess, repent, and ask for cleansing by the blood of Christ for each sin individually.
Ask God in faith to deliver you from bondage and take back any territory in your life you have given to the enemy.
Mark out each item, unless it involves another person.
If it involves another person, determine to ask for forgiveness.
As you ask each person for forgiveness, then mark it off (even if they don’t forgive you).
Walk on in truth, light, joy, freedom, and full of the Spirit!
Take time to confess your sins and get right EVERY DAY.

Questions to Consider:

Have you been closer to the Lord than you are now? When? Why?
How close to God do you want to be? Will you?
Are all parts of your life surrendered to Jesus?
What sins do you need to confess?
Do you have anger or bitterness? Who do you need to forgive?
What actions, motives, attitudes, and thoughts are not pleasing to the Lord?
Are you in bondage to sin? Are you controlled by fear, lies, negative thoughts, food, sexual immorality?
What does God want you to do that you are not doing?
Have you sinned against your spouse?
Will you repent? How?
Do you have accountability? Discipleship?
Do you have accountability and mentorship for your marriage?